Married (Happily) With Issues
In psychiatry, the term âgood-enough motherâ describes the parent who loves her child well enough for him to grow into an emotionally healthy adult. The goal is mental health, defined as the fortitude and flexibility to live oneâs own life -- not happiness. This is a crucial distinction. Similarly the âgood-enough marriageâ is characterized by its capacity to allow spouses to keep growing, to afford them the strength and bravery required to face the world.